What a joy it was to welcome back Emily Kenward, Founder and CEO of local charity, Time to Talk Befriending which is celebrating 10 years of overcoming loneliness through relationship-centred, befriending services.

TTTB is our project for the year and there is an opportunity over the next few weeks to bring in monetary gifts which will bless Emily and her team and will advance the work and bring encouragement and hope to the lives of many older people in the Brighton and Hove area.

Whilst training as a social worker in 2011, on walking down Lavender Street in Brighton, Emily became acutely aware that there were large numbers of older people living in Brighton often in high rise apartments who spent each day alone, sometimes going for days or weeks without seeing or speaking to anyone. So, together with her local Church and other agencies, Emily sought to reach, connect, and engage with older people with a vision to identify their wants and needs and then assist them to become more socially included within the community.

At an ‘Honouring Older People’ tea party, neighbours who hadn’t seen each other for years were reconnecting. They were swapping numbers and sharing stories about how their lives had changed since they had not been able to leave the four walls of their homes without extra support. The majority of the 94 participants said they felt a deep sense of loneliness and that until Emily and her team of supporters had reached out, they thought they were ‘invisible’. The evidence collected from these events highlighted an overwhelming need to ‘see a friendly face at home’. As a result, Time to Talk Befriending was founded on the collective voice of these older people who said that they felt ‘invisible’, ‘forgotten’ and ‘alone.’

Emily then shared some heart-warming personal stories of people whose lives had been touched and changed by the support received, woven together with some thoughts from John 15 v 12-17 (which is helpful to read).

Love is not optional. We love because He first loved us! Jesus was intentional and spent time listening and engaging.  He loved without limits. Do we?

Jesus is our supreme example. Even though Jesus knew He was going to the cross to die an agonising death, to save us from our sins, He chose to spend precious time with His disciples teaching them how to love and what it looked like in practice. See John 15 v 17 – Love each other. Ephesians 2 v 10 – We are created to do good works, which God has prepared in advance for us to do.  Emily encouraged us to grow intentionally in our walk with Jesus.

We are all chosen to serve and bear fruit. Friendship is one of the ways whereby we can reflect the Father’s heart. 1 Thessalonians 5 v 11 – Let’s encourage one another and build each other up.

Emily reminded us that the Christian life is a marathon and not a sprint – how true that is!

To find out more about the work, head to the Time to Talk Befriending website: Time To Talk Befriending

We welcomed back Dr Ruth Butlin from the Leprosy Mission for her fourth visit to our meeting.

Did you know that every two minutes, someone in the world is diagnosed with Leprosy?! That’s more than 200,000 new cases a year. Although it is curable, millions of people worldwide are living with the effects of the disease, from physical disability to mental health problems, poverty and discrimination.

The Leprosy Mission which celebrates 150 years this year is a global Christian organisation leading the fight against this terrible disease. Following Jesus Christ, they seek to bring about transformation; breaking the chains of leprosy and empowering people to attain healing, dignity and life in all its fullness.

They do all of this in four main ways:

• Diagnosing and treating leprosy
• Working to reduce the likelihood of people with leprosy being incapacitated after diagnosis.
• Fighting stigma and advocating for change
• Pioneering research

To read an account of Ruth’s last visit, head to: https://downsbaptistchurch.org/2023/10/thursday-fellowship-dr-ruth-butlin-the-leprosy-mission/

Ruth opened her talk by retelling the story of Hagar from Genesis 16. It is a sad story really but well worth reading and we were reminded that the God who ‘saw’ Hagar in her time of need ‘sees’ the needy, the lonely, those rejected and helpless today and He knows each by name!

Ruth then told us about the work at the Leprosy Mission’s Muzaffarpur Hospital in Bihar, India’s poorest state. Although the buildings are old and need replacing, people receive free treatment, loving care and hope in their greatest hour of need.

We learned about Rajisha (18 years old) whose fingers had become so clawed that she couldn’t feed herself.  Despite a quick diagnose from a visiting doctor to her village and medication to cure her leprosy, the damage had already been done to the nerves in her body and she became withdrawn and depressed. Travelling more than 100 miles on her own to get to the hospital, she was eventually admitted on to a ward and received the care she needed until she was able to undergo reconstructive surgery to her hand.  Her other hand needs surgery too! This lovely, young woman, so far away from her family, is recovering with girls of a similar age who have gone through what she has gone through. Rajisha now wants to train as a nurse because “I want to serve as I was served when I was so sad!”

Ruth will send through updates on the work by adding us to the monthly newsletter list, so watch this space, but if you would like to know more, check out the Leprosy Mission website at: Leprosy Mission

By God’s abundant grace and provision, huge progress has been made in the 150 years since Wellesley C. Bailey (1846-1937) founded the Leprosy Mission in India. We were encouraged to pray for the work, for resources to meet the needs of all those requiring treatment and assistance and for leprosy to be eradicated.

We look forward to inviting Ruth back and said goodbye with a monetary gift to aid the incredible work being done in the name of Jesus.

No speaker this week but possibly the first of many ‘crafty’ afternoons!

Sue led us in a couple of songs – Ah Lord God, Thou hast made the heavens and the earth by Thy great power, followed by All heaven declares the glory of the risen Lord. We then listened to the first six verses of Psalm 19 which is always an uplifting passage of scripture.

We were able to reflect on these thoughts as well as enjoying each other’s company as Kath led us in our activity of creating beautiful, colourful ‘stained-glass’ effect windows.

The sun was shining brightly through the window so the effect was impressive!  It was a shame to take them down but a lovely memento of our special time together and the opportunity to take our work home and display in a window.

It was a very calming and therapeutic time and was thoroughly enjoyed by all.  Thank you Kath for arranging.

We welcomed back Linda Davies accompanied by her colleague Roger to tell us more about the work of Mission Aviation Fellowship (MAF). Linda delivered a very informative presentation with lots of photos and included some videos with personal testimony. The Bible passage to accompany the presentation was from Luke 7 v 11-23 – so apt!

Working in partnership with hundreds of other Christian and relief organisations, MAF enables practical help, physical healing and spiritual hope to be delivered to some of the world’s most remote and inaccessible communities. They work in 25 countries, operating 115 planes and serving 1000 destinations. Their pilots and personnel deliver relief workers, doctors, surgeons, dentists, vets, missionaries, Bibles, school books, food, medicines – everything that can only be safely and speedily transported by air.

Travel by road is just impractical as road systems are poor and little more than dirt tracks. These can be bumpy and uncomfortable for ill patients or become impassable during the rainy season and stranded trucks are vulnerable to bandits and deterioration of precious supplies.  What would be a 36 hour road trip in some cases can be achieved in a 1 hour flight! 

They believe that every community, however remote, should have the essentials for life and their vision is to see isolated people changed by the love of Christ. They provide access, save lives, transform lives and provide hope for a better future.

If you would like to know more about their work, head to:

Home – Mission Aviation Fellowship (maf-uk.org)

Jane leads our Prayer Together opportunity for May focusing on Psalm 90, a prayer of Moses, the man of God.

We welcomed Wynn Funnell to our meeting on a glorious, spring day – it felt like summer!

Wynn reminisced about her earliest memories – memories that made her smile.  Memories are precious aren’t they? For the most part we remember things that bring us joy and make us smile. But at other times, it can be painful and we can feel sad when we think of those whom we loved so much who have died.

Wynn told the story of a dear friend who had written in a book, “till we meet again, I will be thinking of you!”  Sadly they didn’t meet again but Wynn is confident that they will one day in glory and what a reunion that will be!

We were asked to think about our first memory of going to church and how it felt when we experienced God’s presence for the first time – was it wonderful? Was it frightening? We were reminded that God doesn’t force Himself on us but He lifts us from all of our burdens if we let Him. To illustrate this point Wynn read that famous poem ‘Footprints’ attributed to Mary Stevenson, written when she was just 14 years old which depicts a person’s life journey with God. The poem is written as a dream, where the person sees two sets of footprints in the sand, one belonging to them and one to God. The poem reveals that at the most difficult times of the person’s life, there was only one set of footprints, because God was carrying them. The poem is a message of faith and hope, showing that God is always with us. How comforting is that in the troubled times in which we live!

As it was Polling Day, we decamped to Kath’s house for our meeting.  Quite a few members were missing this week due to appointments and illness but we had a super time and it is always a joy to welcome Phil Cook to speak to us.

Phil brought a message entitled, Jesus the Shepherd. His reading was from John 10 v 1-15 which Maria read inadvertently from the AMPC version (The Amplified Bible Classic Edition).  This proved to be inspired as it certainly amplified the meaning and made us all sit up and take note of a different turn of phrase.

The three points to remember are:

Jesus is the Good, Beautiful Shepherd. (John 10 v 11)

Jesus identifies himself as the shepherd of the Old Testament in Psalm 23. He is the only one who is good, winsome, lovely, kind on every level with no blemish or flaw.  He came with authority to give himself freely as a voluntary sacrifice, fulfilling God’s perfect plan of salvation to take the punishment that should have been ours. Death was not His fate – it was His deed! He is the good, beautiful Shepherd.

Jesus is the Great Shepherd. (Hebrews 13 v 20)

The Old Testament Scriptures point to Jesus and were fulfilled in Jesus. Everything in Christ is better – it is always better! God made peace through His precious Son when He raised Him to life.  He is living and able to save and what’s more, He is always praying for us (Hebrews 7 v 25).

Jesus is the Chief Shepherd. (1 Peter 5 v 4)

Hard as it may seem, our faith needs to be tried and tested but be faithful and you will receive a crown of glory.  We shall be like Him and we shall see Him as He is! He will lead us as the Chief Shepherd to living fountains of water.  He is truly the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world. Just like sheep follow the shepherd and he cares for them, so follow Jesus and let Him care for you and lead you in His paths of righteousness.

We welcomed back old friends Keith & Laurel Barnes who have been visiting us for over thirty years!

Laurel read Psalm 139 – a much-loved and beautiful Psalm of David.

Keith reminded us that we all have a past where there will have been significant occasions – some good and some bad, some happy memories, some sad ones and some we would like to forget! But, they are all part of who we are and which help to make us more ‘real’ as people. We are not perfect!

In Psalm 139, David reflects on his life.  He knew that God was familiar with ALL his ways and that he had at times sinned greatly, yet he experienced God’s love and forgiveness. He says in verse 1 – You have  searched me and You know me – even before David was born, God knew him and had ordained all of his days.

Keith challenged us by asking how we respond to this Psalm? God loves us whatever our condition. He understand us, He knows us, He wants to bless us!

Why not pray – Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts; see if there is any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting!

We can never say that we have arrived so keep close to Him and allow Him to determine your steps.

What a joy it was to welcome back Lynda Hulcoop! And what an interesting afternoon as Lynda told us her life story relating it to the fact that God weaves His patterns into our lives. Lynda referred to the poem, Life is but a Weaving which has been attributed to Corrie ten Boom:

Lynda testified to her experience of God’s goodness and faithfulness saying that God does not leave anything to chance.  He is the Master planner.  He knows every individual life, their particular pattern which He ordained and their purpose. Nothing that happens to us is ever wasted – God weaves everything together. Isn’t it a good job that we don’t know God’s plans for us? We surely wouldn’t be able to cope! We just need to trust Him step by step, day by day!

Lynda shared the three verses that have meant so much to her over the years:

Proverbs 3 v 5-6 – Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will direct your paths.

Jeremiah 29 v 11 – “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Matthew 6 v 33 – “Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness.”

What verses do you hold dear?

Lynda concluded by encouraging us that we may not be able to change the world but we can make the most of every opportunity that comes our way to tell our story – to share with the individual – one at a time!

Margaret led our service on Sunday, 21st April and gave us a brief résumé of our recent teaching series on the seven churches of Revelation. 

If you would like to follow the actual messages from our seven speakers, do head to our Sermons page:

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